Everyone has their on kind thinking, it just the matter of your point of view. How you going to set that point. Doesn't matter how people look at you, the most important thing is how you going to look at it. Someone can set their point limit to the lowest or maximum. E.G Someone can find a prosititue to become his wife but others cannot. Someone will never use a girl money except his mother but others just don't care. Don't care about other's just being yourself and don't mind how people look at you, as long as you think you are right that's it!!!